Thursday, 13 August 2009

Daddy's Girl ?Or Not?

I have a good conection with my dad.We daughters are real wonderful creatures.Specially daughters like me...they just put their dads in fix...he support me when i fight my brother's .
wherever he go ..... did not forget me ..he brought lots of books for me..in home i spend my free time in my home library.
In this post i am going to share my ways of spending my free time. Well in general i don't keep myself too busy. I feel there is no achievement in being busy. If i feel like i need the time for myself, i get it.No sweat I spend my free time with readings..


genarally im reading english literature...or some native language books....what my dad doing just im doing.becoz...im dads girl....me & my dad fav't colours and things are same ...same.....thinking of nature ..same same...i love pink colour i hv lots of pink dresses...&lots of pink stuff dad also like pink colour... definitely im dady's girl...:) at home dad &me one side mom bro's other side whn u hv some difficult situations...
My dad n me..we discuss anything and everything that is in this world. About love, about life, about marriage, about college, about everything ..he tells me a lot of things experienced as a guy at college and school.

beautiful moment:
One fine evening im preparing to go to functoin after i dress up ...i didn't like make-up..only i use Eye-liner or kajal and lightly applying  fair&lovely creem only....I asked him...
Dad !... can i look like a celeb'ty?
he just smiled and He asked why I wanted to look celeb'ty?
I didn't have an answer :(
  Then wat i heard was really an insight like for me.. and he told me....
"my dear child..I think you should never try to look like something/someone. It should rather be evident what you are. I am sure there would be someone who'd adore you for what you are.
And if you cover up the real yourself..then you might miss that..person.
And moreover you are what you are...you cannot live a lie..for whole life . But then yeh I dun find anything bad in you looking celeb'ty ..and dad told me" my daughter is my princess and never compare like a celeb'ty...u r b'ful then celb....:)and NEVER, EVER compare yourself to other people. Decide what you want in your own life and choose that path -no one else’s..."
Well..When parents share many incidents of their lives I too feel the confidence that i too can share anything with them...specially my dad... diffenately im daddy's girl...
but same time mom's girl i like my mom i always helping mom in the kitchen we are make a different types of cooking..dishes,sweets....etc..etc.....some personal things didn't share to dad... becoz i little bit scared with dad or i like dad very much i ask few Q, how he feel about me?so i can't ..i feel mom like a frind,so i share whole things to mom,social things share to my dad..and what in my mind and heart ,diffenately just mom knew...diffenately im mama's girl :)my PG exams over  this year im fully have a free time it means lots of reciting quran .. reding books or go internt:) but first helps my mom to cooking next internet or tv and other things....
I log on to net frist, do e-mails and log on to YM ...and gmail...we arechating with my frnds in skype..they are working in US...and K.S.A....

When i am done with Internet, i got TV i watch movies on HBO and Star Movies. but my dad, mom did not like TV,TV at our grannys[dadima][grand mother] home [1st floor]we are watching there..mom dad and  me living in ground floor,so i hv time to watch movies:) mostly i did not watch movies ..like a action movies ...my bro's waching movies like that kind of movies...In between i switch to news updates. During the the commercials, i sruf the channels and some times i end up watching something i found interesting than the movie/program i was wathing.This happens when i got to Nat Geo or Animal Planet or Discovery or disney ...i luv to watch disney ....i like to watch disney fairies.......disney channel,disney cartoons,disney fairies...
When the Internet and TV are down, i go books Earlier, i didn't have TV , so i used to read a lot. But now that i have the idiot box, i give importance to Books But soon i am going to get back to my reading habbits that's a promise to myself. I have some collection that i haven't leafed thru. so soon i am going to remove the dust and start reading:)
i am just happy in my own small world. When i meet friends the talk mostly contains of issues related to Hyderabad,moveis,stars,diff type of books..and anything that finds it's ways into our talk. We don't hesitate to talk about anything. free flowing..:)
when i feel sad .im just hit on the bed.....going to deep sleep......
If i feel like sleeping, i just shut this world from my mind and hit the bed. I don't take calls i don't want any disturbance. The best time of my day is when i sleep Nothing bothers me as long as i am in sleep No thoughts of worries bla bla bla. Just happy to sleep. I love sleeping :)
P.S:I bought a gift for my dad.i hope he likes it.Teacher Inspirational mug from Archies.

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